I’m soft, gentle and sensitive. I’m humble, sweet and nurturing. I provide comfort, support and encouragement. I share wisdom and love and help people through difficult times. I clean up “booboos” and i fill up stomachs. I care for all those around me. It comes from a place of joy. Serving the world around me really makes me happy.

I’m also in charge.

I’m a single mother to boys so I have to be stern and solid. I manage adults so I have to be assertive and direct. I’m a landlord and business owner so I have to be by the book and not always provide grace. These things don’t make me happy. It’s all part of balancing. I’m a pharaoh, not simply a Queen. My crown is a bit heavier so I have to find ways to retreat and replenish me.

Embracing this “soft girl era” thing has been interesting. I started about three years back with SelfLove. That changed how I saw me and it definitely changed how I show up in the world. Loving me made me begin ti treat me like someone I loved so I value the rest.

I watched a video and it talked about how to stand in our feminine power and it mentioned letting your cycle be the guide. Rest when you flow, rest the week prior and the following weeks leading into ovulation SHOW UP! I did this and didn’t even know. It helped prevent a nervous breakdown and now I feel strong and ready to do anything.

Even Boss lady needs to follow and to flow, even if you are in charge you still gotta be charged, recharged and sometimes unplugged and reset it’s ok. Nothing is the same all the time but God.

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