As a blogger I refrain from mentioning folks unless it’s Kudos because everyone deserves privacy, even me as a blogger. I share the feelings of my heart I still don’t “tell my business” so you know I’m not one for doing it on social media. Welp today I did! This ninja such a deadbeat human I almost feel the need to warn others.

My wasband basically stole from his kids and I was being petty with a GoFundMe. He waFirst off he go to church and begs twice during most services so who says I can’t shake cup? And the Bible says: I’ve never seen the righteous forsaken nor his seed beg for bread and since this imbecile ain’t righteous, the kids gone beg a bit.

They still want Disney World. A new tv. Bikes. Clothes. Shit to eat daily! They still need to be cared for and this ass doesn’t help at all. I’ve been a single mom before. I was one when I met the wasband so taking care of me and my kids is never an issue. And if I’m being honest I’ve been blessed to be able to provide them with a pretty good life. I’ve given them much of what I didn’t even have as a child. They have a HOME, a backyard with a trampoline and basketball rim in the driveway, they eat crab legs and shit, they paint and sip with mommy(we have different beverages though) they are little musicians so they have instruments and I pay for lessons. They have everything money can buy and that my love can offer but they don’t have a dad that gives a shit and that part still boils my blood.

I can pay my taxes, the fact that I have to is my issue. I don’t get big refunds, haven’t in years, that’s not my gripe. With me filing all my kids and even with all my write offs of buying property I barely broke even.

His reasoning, they are is his kids and I won’t get the earned income credit so why can’t he, the simple minded man.

He didn’t take care of his kids. He kept them 9/28-12/15 of 2022 and hasn’t seen them since. He hasn’t given me a dime to care for them. From Kentucky I paid child support while he went around with the narrative that I deserted my kids. Truth is I was told I couldn’t take them if i left him. That’s why in our original agreement he had to have full custody, and get child support. It was the only way this monster would agree to a divorce.

Now, I have kids all responsibility and he thinks he will be rewarded. Tuh! I come to put people on notice that God Don’t play about me!! Thee entire universe is on my side and I will be avenged. I’ve held my tongue and my hand for quite some time because I never cared to clear up a rumor or anything but putting a ninja on blast is maybe what I need to heal. I’m tired of hiding who he is for his image.

I don’t like most church folk no way. Hell the deacons wife got mad at me for pulling a knife on the man because attempted to raise a hand to me, I guess she would have preferred to ice his knuckles than to clean a wound, I’d prefer the latter! I was never getting to a point where this man raised his hand to me. That’s why I left, violence only escalates. I knew that I would kill him if we continued the way it was going.

It’s been three years since I left and I’ve learned that even once the relationship ends abuse doesn’t. They find other ways to abuse and manipulate you. I got over having to leave the kids when I was out of state. I got over him not helping and leaving me to “struggle” alone. I even got over him trying to turn my kids against me. I got over him fighting me for two years to reach an agreement and dissolve our marriage. Now he is being creative and will lean into financial abuse, little does he know I’ll get over that too!

I’m blessed and getting money ain’t never been an issue. It’s the principle for me. So this time i had to hit back. Some may think it’s because he recently posted his girl, IDGAF, shorty ain’t new they have lived together since May 2021. This is specifically about the principle of taking from kids you don’t provide for. Play with me, I can avenge myself. My kids legit lost their vacation because of this and they are hurt. This year mommy won’t change the weather (they love to go somewhere warm in winter) but next year daddy won’t have a chance to play. I still got some change for attorneys.

But that GoFundMe gone stay posted and contribute if you’d like. I’m gone apply it to tax debt he created.

Fuck it. Today I’m Petty Betty!