The Diary Of A Healing Heart

I choose. That’s a complete sentence, thought, and boundary. Some people are so used to being able to cross, manipulate or guilt us in to changing our minds and to take your right to choose away. I’ve had the privilege to encounter these folk a time or two…THOUSAND! It’s like I’m a magnet for them.…

I gotta give Megan the Stallion her props for giving me a song that explains how I feel sometimes. Yo the world is legit on my shoulders. As a woman that has everything, I’m supposed to have everything together. Whew chile I don’t! Some days I’m not ok. Some days I’m overwhelmed. Some days I…

Is it just me but some days I was to just be in my own little world that only serves me. Like ion wanna get dressed, ion wanna clean up, go no where, cook nothing barely wanna watch tv. Sometimes I just don’t be feeling like it. I’m started to understand what’s happening in those…

This society is a consumer society. We don’t fix things, we replace them, and even when/if we keep it we want options or an upgrade. I don’t know what makes us always want and never take survey of what we have. Y’all I’ve been trying to get out and to the gym in the morning.…

I’ve always been honest about this being a healing journey, the growth is in the travel, not the destination. People seem to believe there is a point to get to where you are “healed” and then and only then do you have it. Nah that’s not the case. Healing sometimes looks like I merely have…

A few days ago, one of my people asked me where has my blog and my Vlog been? I haven’t given up y’all. I’ve been doing things here and there on TikTok Snapchat a little bit of YouTube, but I have not been writing. And I’m not really sure why because I feel like there…

The rap duo Oshun has a track that’s one of my staples titled “Me”. Its talking about focusing on you and remaining centered. The intro states: “Trust you purpose, your path and always do the math” and I did/do just that! A few months ago I experienced a horrible breakup. What’s crazy is it happened…

Now yesterday I got my happy ass on here and said Fuq how those that hurt me feel I’m telling my story right. Then someone else told there story, about their own pain, and abuse and I was sitting here like ” Now why would she do that? He got a reputation. He got KIDS.…

Someone shared this chart: I dont think I could have said it better. Pictures are worth a thousand words right? This one was telling my story. Yes Ive gotten so much better than I used to be but life didn’t stop lifing. Fear dont stop chasing, bondage and soul ties catch us and sometimes we…